What To Do When Your Husband Watches Porn During Your Pregnancy

Is Your Husband Addicted to Porn?

One of the questions you may have to ask yourself if this – is your husband addicted to porn or is it simply something he watches every once in a while? Many people hold the belief that there is nothing wrong with using visual stimulation or simply watching pornography. You have to decide how you feel about it. If it upsets you, then it’s wrong. You need to have a conversation with your husband and let him know how it makes you feel for him to watch pornography.

On the other hand, many men have an addiction to pornography. Addiction to porn is very similar to any other addiction. The addict feels as if they must watch porn and they will do it very often, sometimes allowing it to get in the way of their normal lives. Some men have even been fired from work because they were caught pulling porn up on the computer. This is not normal behavior and could be a sign that your husband is addicted to porn. In this case, confronting him maybe require something other than a simple heart to heart.

Confronting Your Husband –

If you think it’s a normal thing and that your husband is not addicted to porn, but you’re still upset, you should sit down with him and have a heart to heart talk about the situation. He may have no idea that it would upset you for him to watch porn. The only way he’s going to find out is if you tell him! So, be honest and without being hostile or attacking him for watching porn, tell him how it makes you feel. Most husbands who care for their wives will understand and will do what they can to make their wives feel more comfortable.

However, if you feel as if your husband may be addicted to porn, there are a few things you can do. Research support groups for others who are addicted and find out more about porn addiction. This may help you confront your husband with some information that could help him kick his addiction. You want to come at him very gently as well, without hostility or anger. If you come at him with an attack automatically, he could close off and refuse to communicate which could lead to bigger problems.

Using these tips and tricks, you should be able to confront your husband in a way that lets him know about your concerns and feelings without making him feel embarrassed or ashamed. Communication is key and this will help you remedy the situation before it gets worse!